5 REASONS WHY SHE LEFT YOU
When you come across a woman, a good woman, you don’t have that much time or that many chances to fuck up. That’s just how it is. A woman that knows what she wants and knows her worth has little time to waste on a man that doesn’t know his own value. You may think you are the best thing since sliced bread, and you just might be close, but you will still get left if you’re not hitting the mark. It’s not all about good dick fellas. It can get her but it damn sure can’t keep her. Let me explain to you men what we don’t like about you DESPITE what you think you may have to offer.
1. SENSITIVITY: Ralph Tresvant got you ni**as fucked up. I don’t think he meant be a bitch ass and not stand up for yourself as a man when he sang that song. I think he meant a man that is in tune with a woman’s emotions and feelings. You Crying McKnight type of men that whine over everything, get upset over things, wanna beef with your lady about dumb shit just to get on her nerves. STOP IT! Your job is to dry our tears, not our pussy!
2. DICK RIDER: Women are naturally attracted to men who are leaders, the alpha male, men who make them feel safe, protected, wanted, covered. Men who make their own decisions run their own show. How the hell can a woman feel that way when you’re busy admiring and dick riding the next man like a fatherless son?!??! huh? Who are you leading and protecting when you’re up in the next man face looking to him for guidance, your lost ass… A woman’s logic is this: If we feel as if you can’t guide us, lead us, protect us, show us, teach us, we will leave your ass! Queens date Kings not peasants. Not only that!!!!!!!!!! You listen to your friends! You don’t have a mind of your own. Your mans and dem run your relationship. You’re too afraid to love your woman and be good to her because your friends got some shit to say? That’s wild corny. Go Away.
3. BROKE/NO AMBITION: Yeah yeah yeah shut up….. women like things, I don’t give a fuck what you say Sista Souljah!!! Keep it a buck with yourself. Shit even India Arie need a nigga that can afford to buy her head wraps and coco butter. But damn you always broke, always got a get rich quick scheme, always failing at something. I mean come on. Women like to go out, we like things, and we love a man that’s about his business!!!!! Your woman will leave your no ambition linty pocket ass, yes she will… In between jobs, falling on hard times, I can dig it baby….. I got your back, shit happens….but you’re always in the trenches and in a rut? Miss a real woman with that sob story. Sounds like a con artist if you ask me. Shit, bill collectors at my door? What can you do for meeeeeee? Ohhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
4. POSSESSIVE: Look man go find ya kids and boss them around. Go find ya younger siblings, I don’t know, but you can’t come up in some grown woman life trying to tell her what to do. Now low key, women like a man that is a tad bit authoritive. Just a tad. And when I say authoritive. Its not about telling a woman what to do, its about what you make her do simply because of the man you are. A real man doesn’t have to boss his woman around to get his point across. How he moves, determines how his woman moves. He doesn’t have to demand respect by his words he commands it by his actions. So fellas, all that, you can’t go, you not going, where you going, no you can’t shit? Get the fuck outta here. You soft duke, you weak, go find ya kids with that shit.
5. COCKY: When I say Cocky, I’m not talking about your attitude, I’m talking about thinking that you can control a woman because of how good your dick is suppose to be. You need to understand, your dick is only as good as her pussy. And there is always someone better. Now just like you have women that that have nothing to offer except for what’s between her legs there are some men out there like that too. Women, who aren’t into casual relationships at the moment can not be swayed by good dick. She needs more. So much more. Mental stimulation, conversation, attention, conversation and the like. We don’t like it when you think your dick solves all of our problems. We don’t like it. We don’t like when we are having serious moments and you think fucking us good will make our issues go away. It’s rather insulting to a grown ass seasoned woman. Once we realize that all you really have to offer is your dick, you’re going to become our side bitch. Yes, bitch ass dudes with good peen can become side bitches too. So don’t be a Gigolo or a real woman will tell you to take your dick and tuck it…. #Message!
Deputy Editor of Don Diva Magazine, Author