Ok guys, I don’t mind having threesomes with your wives or setting up one for you to enjoy. But many of you need to learn threesome etiquette! For those of you who haven’t but would like to, I’ll gladly send you information on how to arrange a threesome. I want you guys to be educated as to how you should behave once you are in one.
Threesomes are not like regular encounters — they require both imagination and sensitivity. If you plan on having a threesome, you need to go into the situation with some idea of what you’re going to be doing.
Understanding these basic rules will help you avoid some common mistakes that typically prevent you from getting the most out of your threesome. There are various types of threesomes that you can enjoy, but I’m betting that you’re hoping for the type with two women, one of whom is likely your bisexual or bi-curious girlfriend or wife. These are the basics on how to handle such a delectable threesome.
Rule 1: Establish the rules
You’re going to have a hot encounter with two women and all three of you have your own rules and limits, so understanding and respecting one another’s comfort levels should be a top priority.
Because your relationship with your woman will likely be affected by this new experience, you need to be absolutely clear on which acts she’s comfortable with — and what to avoid doing — in advance. She may tell you that she’s uncomfortable with the idea of you pleasuring another woman or even pleasing another woman orally.
You must respect her limits. Remember that each woman may suddenly feel jealous, so try your best not to shut either woman out and always give more attention to the woman with whom you have a relationship.
As well, you may end up feeling jealous if you’re not the center of attention. Just keep in mind that the object of the game is to share a hot experience between three people.
Also, keep in mind that although some people try to drink their way to bravery for a threesome, drunken encounters usually end up being bad. If you want to have a cocktail or two to loosen up, that’s fine, but no more. You want to be at peak performance.
Rule 2: Be as giving as you can
Although you may be hoping that the two women will give you 100% of their attention, the truth is that they’re there to please each other just as much as they’re there to please you. You may end up feeling ignored and should do your best to get over it.
The best way to approach this situation is to forget your feelings for a moment and try to be as generous with your hands and mouth as you can.
Pleasure in one-on-one encounters goes back and forth, but in a threesome it’s more of a cycle that moves from person to person. So be patient; focus on turning both women on and the attention will come back to you.
Whatever pleasure you get in a threesome is a treat, so instead of expecting anything in particular , enjoy everything that comes your way.
Keep your hands moving .
Rule 3: Keep yourself busy
When you find that both women are busy pleasuring each other and you have nothing to do, keep yourself busy. Take matters into your own hands and find something to do.
Caress the breasts, or thighs of one or both women, kiss their backs or necks, or be creative by pleasuring the one nearest you which in turn will bring attention back to you in a hurry.
If you decide instead just to pleasure yourself for a little while, don’t feel bad; the action will come back to you soon enough.
Rule 4: Be careful with penetration
Now so far as the actual (P==========) which is what novelist Tom Robbins calls “that old show-stopper.” It automatically forms a serious bond between you and one woman, leaving the other out. For this reason, go for the gold only when you’re sure both women are comfortable with it.
Your natural inclination will be to pay close attention to the woman you’re having the encounter with, but you mustn’t focus on her entirely. This is about the three of you, so keep that ideal close at hand. Kiss and touch the other woman, look her in the eye, and talk to her if the mood is appropriate.
Be aware that you may feel overwhelmed with pleasure if you’re rolling with one woman and kissing and caressing another, meaning that you might climax more quickly than expected. Take it slowly and pace yourself.
And don’t get so excited that you lose track of the women: all three of you should be completely satisfied and, even if you achieve climax first, you must do everything you can to bring your two partners to orgasm.
Rule 5: Be safe
Condoms are a necessity, obviously. Semen, vaginal fluid and menstrual blood transmit STDs, so use one specific hand to pleasure one specific woman and use the other hand on the other woman — and keep it that way. You must never alternate.
Likewise, if you’re having an encounter with both women, you must also use a separate condom with each partner. As well, dental dams are a good precaution for oral sex. Lubricate the side that you place against a woman’s skin for better sensation.
it’s not a relationship
Afterward, lie around with both women in post-coital bliss. But remember, it’s not a relationship. This means that the third person likely shouldn’t sleep over. It may seem like a great idea in the moment, but prolonging a threesome is a recipe for total disaster.
Be reassuring to your girlfriend or wife. You’ve had fun, but it’s only pleasure and experimentation. Tell her that she turns you on, that seeing her being pleasured by another woman aroused you, and that while you enjoyed yourself, there’s no one for you but her. She’s your primary concern, so let her know it, and you may well have more threesome adventures in the future.