The law of attraction is very important when looking for that somebody. Most women want their Mr. Right. They want to be happy, go home to a man that loves and accepts them and of course handle them well in the bedroom. The majority of women wants to get married, some don’t mind being just the girlfriend or “baby mama” and some just like to be hoes and will sleep with your man at the drop of a dime and don’t care how you feel about it.
However, it doesn’t matter what we as women want, it’s the type of man we attract.
Are you attracting what you really want in a man?
I will name 5 different types of men. I believe they all can be tamed if that one right woman comes along.
Let me break down the type of men.
The Story Teller – Comes off smooth, knows how to pretend he has manners, make you think he takes care of his responsibilities, great in bed, but is a cheater and will make any ridiculous sounding story sound true.
This man is easy to hubby up because he just wants a dumb female who will believe everything he says and not question him, but she must also be able to take charge in the bedroom in order to keep him on the straight and narrow. If you are that female, this is the one for you.
The Neighborhood Lover – Dresses good, smells good, has charisma, all the girls love him because he acts like he is looking for a queen but smashing and eating every chick in between.
He is looking so hard for a wife he will miss her when she does cross his path. He most likely won’t get find the one until he has matured, which will probably be the time he is middle-aged.
The Dream– As attractive as he is, he is attracted to average or the not so pretty girls,doesn’t like drama, he wants to be the provider,he handles his responsibilities, he tries hard not to cheat and he is willing to work hard and become better.
I call this one The Dream because that’s the only place he can be mine. He is the one I let get away. Hey the young lady that has him now is very lucky.
Mr. Let Me Breathe– He has all the qualities you want, but he will take his time with you if your the needy, affectionate type. He will just keep you around until he finds a female similar to you, but that won’t sweat him as much. He likes his space and will love you and respect you more if he knows you’re confident and not breathing down his throat, checking his phone or stalking him.
If you keep sweating him, he will most likely wife another female quickly.
The Hustler– He sells you the dream of being married having a family, him doing better, gives you money to buy you things, takes you out, but once you let him smash and he knows you ain’t going nowhere, he turns out to be an ignorant uneducated dude that can’t hold a conversation and expects you to take care of him, using you to the extent you allow. He most likely can’t get anything in his name because he has bad credit, owes child support, has no assets and just worries about buying clothes or sneakers. He wants to feel important and living the street life is where he gets his confidence. He most likely is a cheater as well. However, this man can be a provider, but feels he can only do so if he returns to his hustling ways. If you don’t mind being a hustler’s wife,and putting up with a lot of drama then this will be your pick.
Some men can have a combination of some of these traits, but as women we need to build our self esteem and find more man like the Dreamer and ultimately make him our husband.
A man only does what a woman allows. If you’re the dumb women that runs to his aide every time he calls you despite him cheating on you, lying to you then expect not to ever find your dream man.
If you’re looking for a good man, but keep running into the Hustler or the storyteller, maybe you need to look deep down inside of you and found out why you keep attracting these losers. If your man has to tell you to fall back and let him breathe, maybe you need not to act so beat for him and let him sweat you and trust me he will wife you.
The law of attraction is very vital when looking for a partner. So make sure you’re putting out what it is you want to attract.