NEW BLOG ALERT: “EXPIRED MEAT”
This is dedicated to the men who don’t know when play time is over and when your days of having that faithful bootycall recipient is a wrap. It has been duly noted, hereinwith, notwithstanding that you are what we call “Expired Meat.”
Now let me just say this first, because I know the men are going to get all in their feelings with the “well if bitches didn’t give us a reason to then we wouldn’t try it” speech. You are right, we teach people how to treat us, especially men, but peep game fellas:
I understand that perhaps over duration of time you have had easy access to this female. You could come over and beat whenever you pleased, whether you did minor shit as a courtesy such as buy groceries, take her out for drinks and food or simply spending an hour or two of your time with her so that she won’t feel like an easy lay, so you can set up your next hit and run or whatever the situation, either way you knew the day would not end without you getting some ass, because this is the silent agreement or understanding between you and this female. Correct?
But hear me on this:
“Most” females who allow this to go down simply want it to go down that way. We don’t always want the romance or the wine and dine from a certain individual. We are not always emotionally attached to the dick as much as you think. When it comes to us needing a crutch to get over whatever the fuck we need to get over? Loving you is the last thing on our mind. Sure we may catch feelings in the interim, but you can tell how a woman really feels about you by how she acts toward you once it’s over. It is VERY possible that you, yes you and your arrogant ass just might be a piece of dick to her, but your ego won’t allow you to believe that she thinks nothing of you, such as you think nothing of her. You probably feel great or like you poppin or some shit knowing that you could “hit that” whenever because “She aint nothing but a piece of pussy to me” or that your dick is that good.
Be great and sleep even greater with that thought.
When a woman is in transition with herself, we get very selfish, we close ourselves off to emotion and bullshit, so we do shit like line up that good dick without the strings attached, until we get over what we are trying to get over. We are indeed not letting you run all over us (most times) we are using you just like you “THINK” you are using us.
Fast forward…. When that phase is over and we find a man that we really care about or we simply have no use for you any more because we made it to the other side, we normally do a number of things. First and foremost we stop fucking you on the regular. When we are suddenly busy each time you call, please believe that you are Expired Meat to us. We don’t return those texts as quickly and you’ll be lucky if we return the texts at all. We have our minds made up, “fuck that ni**a” and we could care less if we ever fuck you again. It’s possible we may back slide and give you some but don’t you get suspicious. We just haven’t lined up that next dick yet or we did but we think more highly of this guy so we aren’t ready to give it to him yet. We actually want to get to know this guy before fucking him, unlike you, who we knew off the rip wasn’t going home to mama or being around for the long haul. Just like men have their perception of what wifey material is, we have ours as well, so don’t get it fucked up…tuh
But a man’s ego won’t allow him to believe that “she” does not want that dick anymore. And it’s sad when months even years later, he thinks he got it like that! Sure we spoiled you but fuck outta here you can’t be serious thinking that its still all good! “He” is still texting sweet nothings in an attempt to get some of that box, because he refuses to believe that “she” has moved on and is no longer a booty call. At what point do men realize that you can’t make booty calls to this female anymore? At what point do men realize that you can’t call shorty any more for a late night creep, you can’t text her every 3 weeks or pop into town every 2 months with the “what you doing, I miss you?” crap.
We don’t want you anymore and you don’t even deserve an explanation as to why so we just fade to black. How many dudes had a bitch quietly curve him and fade to black before? You don’t have to admit it out loud but I know it’s happened to you. But in case you’re a little confused as to whether or not you are expired meat, here are some clues:
- The LOUDNESS of your texts going unanswered.
- The AGGRESSIVE sound of your phone NOT ringing because she is not calling you.
- The AUDACITY of months going by and you not hearing from her.
Are all sure signs that you are “Expired Meat” to her and that you need to stop calling her, stop sending out those random “sup with you,” texts, stop trying and just move on. We are rolling our eyes, telling our friends and most of all we are turned off by your thirstiness and more over your arrogance.
Stop it, okay? We’re done with you.
BE GREAT!
-ByAyanaEllis
