Today, our relationship expert, Shauna Sayomi, responds to a man with quite a problem on his hands.
I’m a married man in an abusive relationship. Every time me and my wife argue, she beats me up in front of the kids. The last time, she went hard on me with a broom handle. I love my wife and family but I can’t take much more of this. What should I do?
“Bruised Up In Baltimore”
Although some might find this a comical situation, woman on man spousal abuse is a serious thing.
Let’s be honest. Any adult who doesn’t know how to keep his or her hands to themselves is potentially dangerous. Also, the fact that she’s doing this in front of the kids says a lot. Here you are, a grown ass man getting beat like a work mule. That shit ain’t right!
I know life can come at you pretty fast but do you really think this is good for your family? For you? If you really feel like you want to save your family, I suggest marriage counseling. Them counselors be nosey as hell but they can actually do some good and give wifey some tips on how to deal with her anger. I don’t believe in any kind of double standards. A man can’t hit a woman and a woman should not be allowed to hit a man. If she still doesn’t stop after the counseling, call the cops on her ass. That’s what these a lot of these women do. No, seriously though. She needs to work on that. And you need to work on why you feel you have to put up with being abused. No one deserves that.
Peace and Love